Saturday, 13 October 2012

Undercover Boss USA

This is my absolute favourite programme of the moment..I happened upon it last week and have watched it about 3 times this week. I saw the UK version a couple of months ago, which was about the Ann Summers boss. Thought it was ok but a bit watery compared to the USA version, plus I'm not the biggest fan of A.S, not that I'm against anyone buying tacky underwear etc etc, more about having issues with their advertising campaigns in busy high streets (with lots of kids).
I think what impressed me about the yanks, during my previous time working as an Au Pair, was a) their pride in being American, and b) the encouragement and celebration of the fruits of hard work. In this country, if you are not already down, you are not too far away from a cynic who will put you down!
Absolutely love the tears when the bosses realises that they have some cracking employees and havn't so far done them proud..and that these same employees get the recognition they deserve, plus a good old wad of cash to help them in their ambitions (eg, to put their children through college, to enlarge a family home, to study, to pay off study loans etc.)
Heartwarming stuff...different from the depressing garbage churned out by the brits in the daytime (and the yanks are good at garbage also, just better at some things than we are.)
The brits are not all bad..after U.B.U.S,A, there is A Place is the Sun....Ah, if only.....!

Monday, 17 September 2012

Future Queen Topless Pics!

Funny how this is one of my most viewed posts (tee hee!)

Is there anything more likely than the latest headlines to send lots of surreptitious searches from guys (and probably gals) on the internet to look and see what the scrumptious Duchess looks like clothed off?
I do feel sorry for the Prince, the poor guy obviously didn't remember, despite past indications that the French, or for that matter, any press have long zoom lenses and have no morals or boundaries... this is entirely forgivable, as he's also, obviously a trusting sort of chap. How wrong can you be.
I guess I am a cynical so and so, and think that if I were famous, I may have chosen an even more secluded spot (indoors with curtains closed, maybe?) before getting naked. Must be a stifling situation, if you want to go topless then you should be allowed without the glare of publicity..life, however is full of annoying stuff that prevents you from doing as you please.
I think that age, and probably the appearance of children will make the couple as distrustful and cautious as others, for better or worse.

Wednesday, 27 June 2012

Secret Millionaire - Bradford

Who could not fail to be moved by the young successful poker player, Andrew, and his lovely Mother, who has cherished and shielded him (even from the knowledge of what an onion looks like). Sounds like I'm being critical, but I know exactly where his parents are coming from...the boy is a gambling prodigy, but also actually a doe eyed innocent who would be taken for a ride by every tom dick and harry who set eyes on him.

Yes, I am no different, and the trial by cooking, as I've heard is the norm on this programme, often produces similar results....millionaires and prodigies are not the same as us mere mortals, and do not need to know what the different veggies are (is it an onion, a garlic, or even a ginger?), or how to operate a can opener...they are too busy making lots of cash!

I'm sounding like I'm criticising again, but sincerely am not. I cried buckets during this programme, and, as accused by my Mum as being a God botherer, couldn't help but think how very happy God must be to see the lessons learned during the making of this programme, and the amazing life changes experienced by Andrew and those that met him.

All who we met in the programme are inspirational people, the ex addicts, working with those that need help by way of a publication..for no material gain whatsoever...and the youth worker, obviously a priveliged young man who saw a need for supporting young people in the area, and sacrificed a career in music.

I couldn't help but think that the Children's Cancer Hospital man (with his 6 year old sick grandson, an enthusiastic fund raiser, again with nothing to materially gain) had his suspicions about Andrew....I may be a rusty old cynic but the whole demeanour of the man pointed towards thinking that he thought Andrew possibly maybe a secret millionaire...if so and if not, and just plugging his cause on a telly programme, good on him for promoting his cause rightly and justly.

If you havn't seen it, go on the internet replay and prepare to weep!

Thursday, 7 June 2012

The Anniversary of the Bailey Report/Parent Port

Does anyone know what this is?

Let's take a moment to remember the Panorama programme 'Too Much Too Soon' last year, which was the first and only time I heard the above mentioned. It appears that the results from the Report and the Port have underperformed to the degree of minus Flop.
No-one knows about it...well, a few do, and these people have complained that it's such a complicated process to wade through the wordage, and it's so difficult to make a complaint about advertising that it's very offputting.
It's almost as if the government is not really that bothered about the loss to the faltering economy through the banning of immoral sales techniques...how cynical of me.

Please read below, the shorter the better after trying to wade through the Parent Port eh?!

I wore make up and short skirts as a teenager...not to school though, make up, jewellery and short skirts were not allowed and I think this is better for a learning environment, (ask me why if you think this is insane).  My Dad was not happy but my Mother was supportive. However, times were more innocent.

Make up kits and dressing up are great for creativity. However, mimicking sexual behaviour watched on tv, playing violent/watching violent console games with adults who think this is ok may backfire on a child not old enough to have the judgement to separate reality from tv, music video or computer game. Also to realise the consequences of actions whilst role playing the games they've viewed in the school yard or elsewhere.

Many of the girls I went to school with embarked on more adult behaviour than they were mature enough to handle. I suffered from low self esteem and anorexia as a result of this. These things should not be whitewashed.
Anorexia and self harming in girls is on the up. The incidence of violence by young men towards young women is also on the increase, and possibly this is unreported as being mirrored, girls violence to boys. The spread of STD's over a broad age spectrum have been on the rise for years.

Recently, in a parliamentary discussion about the recent court case where Asian men living in the UK had used young girls for sex, it was claimed that the young girls had no innocence and were highly suggestible. The retort from an MP was that it is no wonder that some young women today that they act as they do whilst some having poor upbringings, are vulnerable, and being bombarded by so many sexualised images in the media.
Sex sells and the young are being targeted as 'fair' marketing game, due to the fact that they have the most available cash.

Things are much worse nowadays, music videos are disrespectful to women and the images young women are supposed to mimic are of shallow celebrities. The latest ipad. ipod or console game is more important than the African children who do not have clean water or any education (this is still very common)...
Last year I listened to a programme described Chinese factory workers who have committed suicide due to the pressures of producing huge numbers of Ipads.

Is this right?

Surely not;  social awareness is very blurred at the moment as to what is and is not important in the social education of a child. I want my children to see a GCSE and an NVQ as a valuable goal. I will feel disappointed for them if what they get before these is an STD.

I've witnessed a family of a mother and 3 children who all had matching BRAND trainers but did not have an oven to cook food on, and had been lent money for a takeaway...the 6 year old daughter had a tin of sweetcorn for breakfast as there was nothing else.

I recently rejoined Facebook for business purposes, after a very short initial registration period years ago, as I have never been comfortable with social media. Many stories I hear about Facebook with regards young people, are e-bullying and the sexualisation of young people.

 In addition to this is the habit of teenagers of 'clothing off' and publishing photos of themselves, ready for the interests of any male who cares to browse...irresponsible when you take into account possible future repercussions, whether it be in a professional or personal sphere.

It's with disgust that I removed 2 acquaintances as they'd displayed photos on their pages of half naked teenagers, one of these men has even older daughters, but the girls who posted these pictures may not stop to reflect until they are older. Maybe they will some regrets and want to bring their own children up differently.

Peer to peer links on porn websites and private browsing, available on most browsers are a dangerous combination to vulnerable children, who for some unimaginable reason are still not protected from peadophiles on the internet. As stated in the John Venables case last year, he was charged for downloading child porn, 'This is not a victimless crime'.

The danger of being called a prude is insignificant when the cost of the national youth destruction last year is taken into account. Is it all about the lack of jobs? Or is some of it about the intensity of commercial marketing and the almost complete lack of focus and support regarding positive moral teaching, about sharing with those less fortunate, focus on education instead of how you look for school, team and community spirit etc.
These things are supposed to be highlighted as a result of the nation's 'austerity' measures. Yet the sentiment is very faint - almost inaudible, except in the exceptional cases of this years' Jubilee celebrations and focus on the Olympics, which have been fantastic so far.

If we are to get back to basics, the government needs to be more serious about guiding the media and advertising moguls into more responsible behaviour. If not, the economy may gain but to what long term personal cost for today's youth?



Saturday, 31 March 2012

The Last Supper

An apt following from The Lamb, on Youtube, is this video and choral music from The Last Supper (the Passion of Christ). I cannot see which choir is singing, but it is beautiful.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?list=PLBC64AB4635ECD7D2&feature=player_detailpage&v=ngwAn-V0bDQ

The Lamb



The Lamb
   Little lamb, who made thee?
   Does thou know who made thee,
Gave thee life, and bid thee feed
By the stream and o’er the mead;
Gave thee clothing of delight,
Softest clothing, woolly, bright;
Gave thee such a tender voice,
Making all the vales rejoice?
   Little lamb, who made thee?
   Does thou know who made thee?

   Little lamb, I’ll tell thee;
   Little lamb, I’ll tell thee:
He is callèd by thy name,
For He calls Himself a Lamb.
He is meek, and He is mild,
He became a little child.
I a child, and thou a lamb,
We are callèd by His name.
   Little lamb, God bless thee!
   Little lamb, God bless thee!
William Blake, 1794

 The Lamb  (Songs of Innocence and Experience) was intended to be sung; William Blake's original melody is now lost. It was made into a song by Vaughan Williams. It was also set to music by Sir John Tavener, who explained, "The Lamb came to me fully grown and was written in an afternoon and dedicated to my nephew Simon for his 3rd birthday." American poet Allen Ginsberg set the poem to music, along with several other of Blake's poems.


The lamb is a common metaphor for Jesus Christ, who is also called the "The Lamb of God" in John 1:29.

I've never been a great listener of Jamie Cullum, but as usual, Radio 4 does the job by teaching me something new yet again. I'm sad to say I was completely ignorant of The Lamb, before yesterdays' Desert Island Discs, either as the William Blake poem or as the subliminal psalm written by John Tavener (1944, not to be confused with John Taverner, born in the 15th Century, spookily both being composers of religious music).

 Jamie's mother sang at church, and would take young Jamie in the car practicing this piece on the way...what a fantastic experience this must have been. I don't think my kids would appreciate me trying the same thing somehow, sadly being completely out of tune no matter what.

Youtube has lots of brilliant versions, but the most electrifying one for me is the Tenebrae Choir. I would like to sit in a darkened chapel with lots of candles and hear the choir sing this, but am very happy with the download too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?list=PLBC64AB4635ECD7D2&feature=player_detailpage&v=h-mSmEfLmZc


Thursday, 15 March 2012

Mother Teresa, picture of radiating light..






I've just read the excellent book above, and love this picture of Mother Teresa. It has amazed me how this small determined person changed the world. Her critics, including the late Christopher Hitchens seemed to carry around an unhealthy hatred of her, and her firmly entrenched views still seem to attract fury from her detractors. Yet, never has one woman been so revered since Our Lady.

I think and experience that women with strong views really upset some people, including other women. Is this because the male gene is threatened? Anyhow, her views on abortion and contraception certainly caused much controversy. I think she just deeply believed in the biblical teachings and was not to be swayed by uncertainties. Everything she did was in good faith.

Mother Teresa was criticised for 'cosying up' to dictators. Indeed, she was civil to all, and fostered positive relationships with those who may be able to agree to helping with the financial side of her needs for the poor. She asked for, and accepted money from dubious sources from unsavoury country leaders. But this was done in an effort to do good to the millions of people who were hurt and left with nothing in war zones. Sadam Hussein agreed to her request to open an orphanage in one of the most dangerous areas under his command.

So she was heavily criticised, and so was Jesus, who was her model.

Then, when her doubts and loneliness in faith came to light, Christopher Hitchen was at her heels like a rottweiler, calling her an atheist and a fraud. How laughable, and how badly educated he was about his victim.

Mother Teresa may have done things that others find wrong, but she tried her hardest to be the perfect model for the poorest of the poor and gave her all for the needy, in mind, body and spirit.

God Bless her and salutations to her.